Day 1 - Five ways to win my heart?

This post is inspired by Mia Farraday at http://miafarradaily.blogspot.com/2011/07/30-day-challenge-day-1.html

Five ways to win my heart? Psssh, only five? 

Be Organized

I can be a scatterbrain at times, really random (here, there, everywhere) but I can be a bit anal, okay quite anal, so I expect the man to be organized as well. Trust me, I do not like organizing other people’s lives; I expect them to be able to be able to do that themselves.

Make me laugh

Period. point blank.

Dependability

I don’t want a Loretta Devine slash Frank situation like in the movie “For Coloured Girls”: checking my drawers to see if he’s still there? Noooooh, not for me. Plus, when he says he’ll meet me at 19h00 I’m expecting 18h55. Can you hear the whip cracking?

Spontaneity:

I can plan. See the long lists on my blog, yeah that’s me. I need to know, need to know when, where, how, who, how, who :-). Basically, I need to know. Right down to dotting the Is and crossing the Ts. Yep, that’s me. Hottie: Let’s go to blah blah for lunch! Delirious: WHAT? I’d already decided we should go to blah blah; I can already taste what I’m going to eat.

Delirious: Seriously? You want to change?!

So, hottie has to be like this:

Hottie: what are you doing Friday?

Delirious lists an “all you can do list”.

Hottie: well I guess that’s going to have to change cities, what about you finish that list in a different city? *Now that’s what I’m talking about!* 

Brain Power

Have a brain; please tell me something I don’t know.

Addendum (he he he):

a.       He has to be over 1.75 metres tall. So what if I’m 1, 54 metres tall? Yeah I said it!

Do you hear Will and Jada complaining?

Be tall, walk tall, have some swag.

b.      Be Brave

c.       Be worldly-wise

d.      Romance – this girl loves to be wooed, romanced and generally made a fuss about (seasoned, marinated, rubbed and massaged).

e.       Will power: Say no to me, don’t be a pushover! But not too much willpower, Delirious likes having her way. This means he has to be patient too.

f.       No Gorillas in the Mist and Neanderthals, just NOT ALLOWED. Although I do like a manly men :-) Please, he needs to have evolved.

Take notice, it’s about the little things too – grand gestures are great but the little things…they go a long way. Just be present.